(Mis)Communication in Dating and Marriage | John S.K. Kauwe III and Monica S. Kauwe

President John S.K. Kauwe III and Sister Monica S. Kauwe
President and First Lady of Brigham Young University–Hawaii
Brigham Young University–Hawaii Devotional (Tuesday, May 6)

At devotional today, President and Sister Kauwe share honest stories from their own relationship to highlight the importance of clear, Christlike communication in dating and marriage. They teach that open conversations, trust, and unity help couples navigate both joyful and difficult moments. Strong communication not only strengthens relationships—it invites revelation and brings the power of God into our lives.

"Living righteously in unity invites divine power. As you make spiritual decisions and exercise priesthood authority together, you will find joy, revelation, and peace through God’s power and mercy." –President John S.K. Kauwe III

"Communication creates love and unity, invites revelation from the Holy Ghost, and brings power from God to guide your family through both blessings and trials." –Sister Monica S. Kauwe

President John S.K. Kauwe III is the eleventh president of Brigham Young University–Hawaii. He assumed the presidency in July 2020. He was sustained as an Area Seventy on April 4, 2024, and continues to serve in that role today. Prior to his current position, he was a professor of Biology at Brigham Young University (BYU) in Provo, where he also served as chair of the Biology Department and as Dean of Graduate Studies.

Sister Monica S. Kauwe is the First Lady of Brigham Young University–Hawaii, serving alongside her husband. She holds a degree in chemistry and has worked in the pharmaceutical industry before transitioning to a full-time mother of five. Her educational background and professional experiences have shaped her commitment to supporting students in their academic and spiritual journeys at BYU–Hawaii.

Together, they have been married for over 20 years and are actively involved in guiding students at BYU–Hawaii.

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