The Avoidant Thinks You Are the Villain in their Story And It's OK | Megan Weks

Healing from a relationship with an avoidant partner often comes with a painful twist: in their story, you become the villain. They say you were "too needy," "too emotional," and "too demanding" for wanting basic consistency and emotional availability. This feels deeply unjust, and it's designed to protect them from accountability.

In this powerful talk, Megan Weks breaks down the avoidant's playbook of narrative rewriting and reveals the counterintuitive path to true freedom. It's not about fighting their story—it's about accepting your role in it. Discover why being cast as the "bad guy" is actually the ultimate sign of your growth and the key to reclaiming your power, your boundaries, and your life.

📖 IN THIS VIDEO, YOU WILL LEARN:

🕒 00:00 - The Unjust Villain: Why You're The "Bad Guy" in Their Story
🕒 03:15 - The Avoidant's Playbook: How They Systematically Rewrite History
🕒 08:45 - The Double Standard: Your Boundaries vs. Their Withdrawal
🕒 12:30 - The Psychological Function: Why They NEED You to Be the Villain
🕒 16:50 - The Liberating Shift: How Accepting the Role Sets You Free
🕒 20:10 - Protecting Your Peace: Letting Them Keep Their Story While You Write Yours
🕒 24:05 - Your New Narrative: From Villain to Hero of Your Own Life


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This video is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional therapy, psychological, or medical advice. The concepts discussed are based on attachment theory and relationship psychology. Your personal circumstances are unique, and you should consult with a qualified mental health professional for any specific issues.