How to Respond When You Are Wronged | Pastor Cal Rychener

Let’s face it – in any challenging relationship, half the problem is us! This means that before pointing fingers, we should first look in the mirror. Let’s learn together about God's ways for cultivating healthy relationships by starting with evaluating ourselves.

Every day, we collide with people who are not like us – we see them at home, at work, and everywhere in between. In fact, there’s a good chance the name of a family member, neighbor, or co-worker just came to mind; it’s an unavoidable reality! Join us for the next few weeks as we discover strategies for how to win with others without losing our minds!

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0:00 - Message Start
15:09 - Principle #1: Conflict is a necessary and normal part of any worthwhile relationship.
19:32 - Principle #2: PCR should be viewed as a process rather than a one-time event.
21:52 - Principle # 3: Expect pain and discomfort.
22:46 - Principle #4: Enlist some traveling companions!
23:56 - Principle # 5: Pray!
25:14 - Rule #1: Keep it private.
27:54 - Rule #2: Arrange to meet the person face to face as soon as possible.
29:18 - Rule #3: Start by affirming the relationship.
31:00 - Rule #4: Honestly identify the real issue.
33:46 - Rule #5: Think defuse at all times!
34:14 - Make observations rather than accusations.
35:06 - Invite their feedback.
35:42 - Attack the problem, not each other!
36:11 - Control the volume.
37:50 - Rule #6: Extend forgiveness!