Why Aida Has COMMITMENT ISSUES?! (Aida's Hot Seat) | The Hop Pod Ep 118

Commitment issues? Daddy issues? Or just high standards? We’re putting Aida in the hot seat to open up about her struggles with commitment, how her past relationships and family dynamics shaped her views on love, and what it really takes to unlearn those fears.

00:00 Teaser
01:48 Topic of the day
02:10 Disclaimer
02:29 What is your current relationship status?
04:05 Has anyone ever slid into your DMs that surprised you?
04:26 Would you ever date another influencer/someone in the same industry?
05:14 Why are you scared of commitment - the guys, timing, or freedom you don’t want to give up?
08:25 What is your attachment style?
09:10 Do you think your hesitation to commit comes from already being fulfilled from your independence and social circle?
11:00 Are you afraid of losing?
11:28 Is this influenced by your family?
12:46 Do you want a man like your father?
13:29 Were you exposed to a lot of toxic masculinity growing up?
14:50 Do you actually hate men who carry umbrellas?
16:21 Do you think your self-deprecating humour is a defence mechanism?
16:59 If Siyu was a man, would you date her?
17:08 What’s your dating age limit?
17:55 Do you want a child?
20:07 Where do you think this strong desire for kids comes from?
20:20 If you had a son, what would your dynamics be like?
20:49 Aida’s potential son names
21:48 Will you ever settle with someone just to have kids?
22:13 Are you ready for a committed relationship?
23:26 Is it more about wanting kids or a partner to raise them with?
24:39 Not wanting to go home to a man
25:54 Do you want a friend in a partner?
26:23 Are you willing to let go of the jokes/trivial things you say that may be affecting your mindset?
27:43 “Some men have made me very happy”
28:10 Being seen as having bad requirements over being a bad person
28:34 Are you afraid of being perceived and judged?
29:34 This or that? (Pick a guy edition)
41:10 The final verdict
42:52 (Aida to the hosts) How can I be a good partner?
44:18 Outro
45:04 Bloopers

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