How to Get Addicted to Intimacy with Your Spouse Again | Jessica Lewis

Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?

In this video, I’m breaking down why so many couples unknowingly become addicted to disconnection, and how you can reignite physical and emotional intimacy in your marriage.

I’ll show you the six core human needs that drive your relationship, and how meeting just three of them can shift everything — especially in the bedroom. If you’re the one craving more connection, or if you’ve stopped desiring your spouse altogether, this message is for you. I’m not here to sugarcoat — I’m here to help you rebuild what may feel lost.

This message is personal, it’s real, and it might be the one thing that shifts your entire marriage.

If you’ve been waiting for your spouse to change, I challenge you to go first.

💬 Let me know in the comments what you’re committing to change in your marriage.
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Chapters:
00:00 - I Didn’t Realize I Was Addicted to Disconnection
00:36 - When Passion Left Our Bedroom
00:56 - The 6 Human Needs That Changed My Marriage
01:45 - Why Rejection and Distance Felt Normal
02:30 - How I Started Rebuilding Intimacy
03:38 - I Asked: Does My Spouse Feel Chosen by Me?
04:27 - Learning to Connect Emotionally First
05:21 - How I Picked 3 Needs to Focus On
05:54 - The Truth About Why I Kept Pulling Away
06:35 - Creating New Intimacy Habits That Stick
08:25 - I Stopped Waiting for Him to Change
09:04 - Choosing to Love Like Jesus — Even When It’s Hard


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