Why You Always Care More Than Your Friends

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Do you feel like you're always the one who cares more in your friendships?
You’re the one texting first, planning everything, showing up for people who don’t seem to notice…. or worse, don’t reciprocate. In this video, I break down why that keeps happening and it’s not always because your friends are selfish.

I’ll walk you through three common patterns that cause people to over-function in their relationships:
✨ The Prover – trying to earn your place by giving too much
🧠 The Miscommunicator – not expressing what you actually need
⚠️ The Controller – asking for help but not allowing it to happen

Most importantly, I’ll show you how to shift from transactional friendships to transformational relationships—the kind where you're met, valued, and wanted without overextending yourself.

🔹 Chapters:
0:00 "Leftover friend"
2:12 Taking inventory
3:36 3 common patterns
4:01 Pattern 1: The Prover
10:55 Pattern 2: The Miscommunicator
13:58 Pattern 3: The Controller
18:06 Examine the dynamic

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