Swimmer Michael Gunning on Coming Out, Queer Visibility, and Representation in Sport

Former elite swimmer Michael Gunning sits down with Ben Cicchetti on Queer Talker to talk openly about identity, representation, and life beyond professional sport.

In this episode, Michael shares what it was like growing up queer and mixed race in elite swimming, facing stereotypes like “Black people can’t swim,” and feeling pressure to overcompensate just to fit in. He reflects on suppression, resilience, and how sport shaped both his confidence and his struggles.

Michael opens up about coming out publicly, the importance of LGBTQ+ representation in sport, and the impact of seeing figures like Tom Daley live openly. He also talks about retirement, body image, redefining success, and why authenticity matters more than medals.

This episode explores what it means to step away from labels, let go of boxes, and live fully as yourself.

If you care about LGBTQ+ stories, elite sport, representation, or personal growth, this conversation is for you.

Chapters

00:00 Hopes and Dreams for 2026
04:18 Queer Panic
07:24 Childhood and Identity
10:19 Coming Out and Its Impact
13:20 Pride and Community
16:17 The Role of Swimming in Resilience
19:18 Representation in Sports
20:01 Embracing Authenticity in the Entertainment Industry
20:46 The Importance of Being Your True Self
21:50 Isolation and Connection in Elite Sports
23:05 Coming Out: A Transformative Experience
24:50 Navigating Public Perception and Personal Identity
26:25 The Transition from Elite Athlete to Everyday Life
28:06 The Reality of Retirement: Adjusting to Life After Sports
30:10 Maintaining Competitive Spirit Beyond the Pool
32:34 Advice to Younger Self and LGBTQ+ Youth

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