Stop Doing This If You Want Her To Like You

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Have you ever left a first date thinking you absolutely nailed it, only to be met with complete and total silence?
You were charming, you were agreeable, you even made sure to mention your success at work. You thought you presented the perfect package. But your phone stays silent. You’ve been ghosted… again.
If this sounds familiar, I need you to listen closely. The reason this keeps happening is a destructive habit you’ve been taught is “nice,” but is actually the single biggest turn-off for women.
In this video, I’m going to break down three things you need to stop doing immediately. We'll cover why being the "yes man" makes you forgettable, how indecisiveness kills attraction, and why trying to sell yourself makes you look weak.
And make sure you stick around until the very end, because I'm going to share the one secret about attraction that, once you understand it, will fundamentally change your dating life for good.
Point 1: Stop Being The 'Yes Man'
The biggest mistake you’re making is thinking that agreeing with her on everything makes you more attractive. It doesn’t. It makes you invisible. This habit is born from a deep-seated fear of rejection. You mistakenly believe that if you create zero friction and agree with everything she says, she’ll have no reason not to like you. But attraction doesn’t work that way. Women aren't looking for the path of least resistance; they're looking for a man with a personality, a man who can stand on his own two feet. When you agree with everything, you’re not building a connection; you’re erasing yourself from the interaction. You become a bland, forgettable chameleon.
Imagine this: she says she loves indie rock. You, a guy who loves 90s hip-hop, immediately say, “Oh, me too! They’re so authentic.” She mentions she’s a vegan. You, who had a burger for lunch, say, “That’s amazing. I’ve been meaning to eat more plant-based.” You think you're building rapport. What you’re actually communicating is, “I don’t think who I really am is good enough, so I'll be whoever you want me to be.” This doesn't signal that you're nice or compatible; it signals that you lack a core identity. It tells her that your desire for her approval is more important than your own truth, which is a massive red flag. She wants to get to know a real person, not a carefully constructed performance designed to please her. A woman wants a partner who can introduce her to new perspectives and ideas, not someone who just reflects her own back at her.
Women aren't looking for a mirror. They are attracted to a man with his own thoughts, his own passions, and his own backbone. Your uniqueness is your most attractive quality. The fix isn't to be disagreeable ; it’s to have an actual, authentic opinion and the confidence to share it respectfully. If she says, "I think 'The Office' is the greatest show ever," don't just agree to score points. Create a real conversation.
Say something like, “I get why people love it, it has some classic moments. For my money, 'Arrested Development' has the cleverest writing I've ever seen. Have you watched it?” You’re not attacking her taste. You’re validating her opinion ("I get why people love it") and then confidently offering your own unique perspective. This is how you create intrigue. You’ve just opened a new conversational door and revealed something real about yourself. This playful disagreement, this slight tension, is where attraction is built. You’re showing her you’re a complete person, not just an echo. You are demonstrating that you are secure enough in yourself to handle a minor difference of opinion, which paradoxically makes her feel more secure and comfortable with you.

Have you ever left a first date feeling like you absolutely nailed it, only to be met with complete silence? This video cuts through the noise, revealing a common habit that sabotages your dating success and prevents authentic connections. Discover practical dating advice and dating tips to build genuine attraction.

00:00 Intro
1:00 (Point 1: Stop Being The 'Yes Man')
3:52 (Point 2: Being Indecisive and Lead)
6:23 Special Offer
7:09 (Point 3: Stop Selling yourself; Start Connecting)