How Coercive Controllers Are Indoctrinating Our Children

Dr. Cocchiola discusses the challenges faced by parents whose children are being indoctrinated by narcissistic abusers or coercive controllers. She explains how these controllers may attempt to turn children against their other parent, instilling fear, anger, and distrust.

Highlighting the importance of understanding that these behaviors stem from the child being in a state of 'reptilian mode,' or trauma, Dr. Cocchiola offers strategies for parents on how to respond non-reactively. She emphasizes the importance of gentle parenting or co-regulation techniques to help children feel safe and valued, without shaming or correcting them aggressively.

The aim is to reinforce that the negative beliefs implanted by the coercive controller do not reflect the true nature of their relationship with the protective parent. Dr. Cocchiola encourages parents to focus on affirming their love and commitment to their children, ensuring they do not feel responsible for the family's challenges.

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