Relationships are a mirror to your Self

How do we work through relationship challenges from the awakened place? What does it look like to be the Self in our every day relationships?

In this powerful Satsang, Helen describes how we can consciously come to our relationships and allow them to transform into their highest manifestation, allowing us to embody the Truth that we are.

All relationships are a mirror to our own Self.

00:00 Welcome
00:37 Announcement of changes to answering questions submitted online.
04:08 Introducing the topic of relationships.
05:26 All human life is relationship; people, money, time, objects, etc.
06:27 Relationship is a mirror showing us what we think and feel.
07:18 Human beings are raised in conditional love.
08:26 Awakening will bring us beyond unconditional love to non-dual love.
09:36 Explanation of cause and effect.
17:35 We can ask if a relationship were going exactly how we like, how would we feel that we don’t feel now.
29:13 Make a list of what you need from a relationship and ask is it really true it’s not here already.
25:13 Q1: Student wants to trust her son has his own inner guidance.
37:45 HH: We might believe if we relax into awakening, we will turn into a bad parent. But if we are already infinite Self, why would parenting get worse. Awakening makes us better parents.
43:38 Q2: Student watching the body goes through cancer and relationship with carer has fallen apart.
46:35 HH: Helen asks if we are all one Being, can I cause harm.
50:58 Q3: All facets of life feel sabotaged and student wonders what life is trying to say.
53:01 HH: Life will show us where we are believing something that is not alignment with our true Being.
1:01:03 Q4: Student asks about her relationship with her children.
1:06:05 HH: Helen asks what student would want from these relationships. If there’s no separate self, these desires must be in them as well. Get in touch the desire and do conscious imagining with it.
1:11:58 Q5: Student is in relationship with someone who has addiction issues.
1:15:11 HH: Find the balance of what he would like while accepting how it is right now.