The Attachment Mistake Adults Keep Making

If your child acts totally different with other adults, extra silly, overly friendly, clingy, shut down, or “performing” for attention, this video explains why.

Most parents think, “They’re just excited,” or “They behave better for other people,” but the truth is more important:

👉 Kids only form real connection when they feel truly safe.
👉 Everything else is a fake attachment—a survival strategy, not trust.

In this video, you’ll learn:

✔️ Why adults misunderstand safety
✔️ The difference between real attachment and fake attachment
✔️ Why kids get goofy, performative, or extra clingy around certain adults
✔️ How teasing, hype, and unpredictable energy sabotage safety
✔️ The #1 way adults accidentally make kids feel unsafe
✔️ What your child needs to see from adults to calm their nervous system
✔️ How safety leads to real connection, cooperation, and better behavior

Kids don’t attach to adults who are loud, unpredictable, or teasing.
Kids attach to adults who are calm, consistent, and emotionally safe.
Safety first. Connection second. Behavior last.

If you want your child to trust you—and the other adults in their life—this video gives you the roadmap.