The Hidden Force That Shapes Your Reality!

Your behavior creates your reality.
But what creates your behavior?
Your behavior is like your surface and what creates it is beneath.

The combination of your soul/higher self/highest potential, subconscious, and ego comprise the drive of your behavior.
1 the connection to your highest potential. Your consciousness.
2 your hard drive. Your memory bank, your conditionings, your perspectives and beliefs.
3 your individual expression. Your style, charisma, defense, and security.

Different situations and happenings within your life trigger one or more of this trifecta causing a ripple effect forward into behavior (which includes nonaction.

Does your subconscious hold a memory of being hurt badly on a bicycle? This may strike fear which leads to aversion of bicycle riding.

Just meditate? Connect to your goals? Feeling clear? This may ripple forth into confidence and action steps toward your desired future.

Have a date you want to impress? This may manifest into you spending extra time getting ready or even shopping for a new outfit and wearing your good perfume.

We all need all three aspects. Consciousness has drove humanity forward rapidly. The Subconscious has allowed us to form habit which saves time and energy. The Ego has allowed for expression, creativity, color to life.

Healthy and unhealthy aspects to each of them if unbalanced.

Too much soul, you may forgo your bodies health. Too little soul, you may feel as if you lack purpose.
Too much subconscious, you live life on auto pilot. Too little subconscious and you forget how to drive.
Too much ego and you become superficial. Too little ego and you never speak up for yourself.

Id like to touch on the ego for a second. Negative connotation…the subconscious doesn't care if you get dressed for work, its about comfort and survival. Your soul does not need a color coordinated outfit to show up to achieve goals.

It is helpful to know of these aspects of self because it can make sense of your inner dialog but can also be helpful in achieving goals and change.

Thoughts on fear of rejection are likely coming from your ego which your conscious self can address with some self praise. Thoughts on a current partner cheating as a pervious one did are likely coming from your subconscious which your conscious self can sooth by reminding you that they are not them, that you've learned, and that it is okay to trust again.

This is what some refer to as self parenting or reparenting.

Often times we have a conscious desire to change as aspect of self or life such as health, love, confidence, or success but the conscious desire to do so may fade away as subconscious habit patterns kick in or your egos desire to How many times have you said you want to be healthier just go go back to how you used to eat and live? How many times have you said you want to be more successful and researched new income streams but not done anything about it?

You are a conscious being AND an animal. All animals have subconsciouses. Tigers store memory of where they mainly find zebra. You are how you are because you are more than just an animal. Humans have the ability to assess what is beneath the behavior. We are more than habitual, we are holders of consciousness !! how cool! Now it is time to utilize it!

The thing is….only you can. Only you can sooth your subconscious and ego. Only you can rally your troops toward your higher potential. And it starts beneath the surface. Start looking like a crazy person and talking to yourself. Converse with your subconscious and ego about the thoughts that pop up, the fears you have, the mental blocks toward your goals, etc.

Your life will instantly change. Your relationship with yourself will strengthen. And your confidence will skyrocket.

You are your biggest advocate, authority, and cheerleader.