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Song Lyrics
🎶 Introducing the ASL Sign Language version, brought to life by the incredibly talented Wanda Holding, MA in Clinical Psychology

Chorus
It’s my body, My body
And nobody has a right to hurt me
‘Cos my body is my body for me
It’s my body, My body
And nobody has a right to touch me
‘Cos my body is my body for me

Verse
I’ve got two hands to feel
And two eyes to see
And two ears to hear what you’re telling me
I’ve got two strong legs to take me where I go
And I’ve also got some private parts
That I don’t want to show
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Chorus
It’s my body, My body
And nobody has a right to hurt me
‘Cos my body is my body for me
It’s my body, My body
And nobody has a right to touch me
‘Cos my body is my body for me

Verse
I’ve got hair on my head
I want you to see
And a little belly button
In the middle of me
I’ve got a cute little nose
And ten little toes
And I‘ve got a mouth to tell you
What I want you to know

​Chorus
It’s my body, My body
And nobody has a right to hurt me
‘Cos my body is my body for me
It’s my body, My body
And nobody has a right to touch me
‘Cos my body is my body for me
Yes my body is my body for me


Teach children that their bodies are their own and no one has the right to hurt them or touch their private parts.

Firstly be clear that the parts of their body covered by their underwear are private and belong to them.

Now it is essential to explain to children that there may be times that parents or carers may have to touch their private parts, for example:-

a) When they are very young, parents or carers will have to bathe them, but as they get older, they will learn how to bathe themselves.

b) Parents or carers may have to apply medicine to their private parts if the child is sick or sore. Make sure they know that this is something only parents or carers would do and if it makes them feel uncomfortable, they can always be shown how to apply the medicine themselves.

c) A doctor may have to touch their private parts if they are sick or sore, but that Mommy, Daddy or carer would always be with them if the doctor had to touch them there. There is no other time that anyone should be touching their private parts. The most important thing is that the children know it is ok to say “NO” if someone makes them feel uncomfortable or tries to make them do things they know are wrong. Empower children by letting them know their bodies belong to them. There is no need to go into any further sexual or abuse details with young children.

Most sexual abuse occurs either within the extended family or by someone the child knows and trusts. It is very damaging to a child when this trust is broken. They need to know they have someone safe to go to for help and someone who will listen to them and believe them.



Please remember that the perpetrator is usually someone the child loves or trusts, so the subject must be discussed very gently. Do not get angry in front of the child, and they need you to be calm and in charge. You could explain that just like a drug addict or an alcoholic, people who abuse children need help to get better so they will not hurt children anymore, which is why they need to tell.

Sing along with the My Body Is My Body Song, have fun, do all the movements and make this a positive experience. Create a non-threatening environment where children can freely ask questions about this subject.

Keeping Secrets
Child abusers and sexual predators often count on the fact that a child will keep a secret, and for this fact alone, it is a good idea to have a “No Secrets” family rule. Instilling this into your children from a young age regarding day-to-day occurrences will make them feel more comfortable about not keeping unsafe secrets if someone is hurting them or touching them inappropriately.

Children need to know if abuse occurs that :
a) They are not to blame
b) They should not feel guilty
c) The person that has abused them needs to get help for their problem so that they will stop hurting children -and that is why it is so important to tell!
d) It is important to tell so that the abuse can stop.

The Digital Age
In this digital age, we also have to protect children from people who may want to take inappropriate photos. When talking to them about inappropriate touching, you should also mention that they may want to take a photo of their private parts (even if they don’t try to touch them ), and if someone tries to take a photo, children must say NO!

Sing along with the My Body Is My Body Song, have fun, do all the movements and make this a positive experience. Create a non-threatening environment where children can freely ask questions about this subject.

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