Becoming Your UNCONDITIONALLY MOST LOVED Self | The TRUTH About the Best Self Burnout

You were never failing, you were chasing a version of you that was never meant to hold you.

In this episode of H.E.R! After Dark, we uncover the truth behind the toxic pressure to become your “best self”, and why it may be secretly sabotaging your peace, confidence, and healing.

You’ll learn how to shift from perfectionism to self-love, and what it truly means to become your unconditionally most-loved self.

✨ If you’ve ever felt tired of chasing glow-ups, hustling to prove your worth, or struggling with burnout while trying to heal, this one’s for you.

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Which part hit you the hardest? Are you ready to love yourself as you are?

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00:00 You Were Never Failing
00:56 The Truth About the “Best Self”
01:21 How Perfectionism Creates Burnout
01:42 What is Best Self
01:58 Why is Best Self Destructive
02:46 Real Life Examples: Demi Lovato & Selena Gomez
03:12 Embracing Your Most-Loved Self
03:41 How to Love Yourself Unconditionally
03:55 Effective Ways to Feel Loved by Self
04:15 Self-Care is Spiritual
04:48 Benefits of Becoming Your Most Loved Self
05:25 Affirmations for Healing
05:40 Final Thought + Subscribe

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