Finding Yourself Later in Life | A Conversation Between Gay Dads

In this conversation, I sit down with fellow gay dad Zach Anderson to talk about coming out later in life — and everything that comes with it.

We talk about identity, faith, fatherhood, marriage, and the complicated process of understanding who you are when you didn’t grow up with the language or permission to explore it. Zach shares what it was like discovering gay culture later in life, finding freedom and belonging, and making sense of past choices through a new lens.

This is an honest, grounded conversation about becoming yourself later than expected — and learning how to build a life that finally feels aligned.

Gay Dad Mode is a space for conversations about gay fatherhood, fitness, identity, and connection — especially for men navigating change, growth, and rebuilding.

Chapters / Topics We Cover:
-Coming out later in life
-Growing up without space for identity exploration in the Mormon Church
-Marriage, friendship, and misunderstanding attraction
-Discovering gay culture and community
-Fatherhood and rebuilding after major life changes

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