Mother of 2 disabled kids from uk | Iftikhar Ahmad Usmani

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Today's story is about a woman whose family gave birth to one disabled child after another. The woman's name is Tanya, who was engaged to her maternal uncle's house. Tanya's parents had passed away. There was a married brother and a sister-in-law in the family. The sister-in-law was her uncle's daughter. That's why the sister-in-law's brother Shakeel had to come to the house. One day, Shakeel told Tanya that he loved her and wanted to marry her. Tanya refused because her engagement had ended. But Shakeel did not back down. Every day, seeing her alone, he would talk lovingly to Tanya, and Tanya listened with compulsion. Shakeel was in love with Tanya and talked to her sister, who was Tanya's sister-in-law. Tanya tells me that the sister-in-law talked to my maternal uncle and ended the engagement at my maternal uncle's house and got me engaged to Shakeel. After some time, Shakeel went to study. When I started going to the UK, I got married to Shakeel. Shakeel went to the UK. We started talking on the phone and I fell in love with Shakeel. After seven years, Shakeel's papers were completed. He came to Pakistan and took me to London. After reaching London, our life became very happy. I realized that if I had gotten married at my uncle's house, I might not have been so happy. Two years later, a son was born to us. Shakeel's wish was the same. He was very happy. Then a year later, a daughter was born. Shakeel was unhappy. Four years later, my son suddenly became disabled. I got him treated a lot, but he could not recover. The doctors said that this happened because of cousin marriage. A year later, my daughter was also attacked and she also became disabled. Now my happy home has been destroyed. My husband started getting angry with me and after two years, he said that we should get our children admitted to the social department. But I refused. Once, the social workers came on Shakeel's call, but I They sent him back empty-handed. There was a fight between Shakeel and me regarding the children. Shakeel would not come home for two weeks. When he did come home, he would fight with me. Our life got ruined. I was raising my children and no one was going to feel my pain. My husband had also distanced himself from me. Shakeel first started disrespecting me and then started humiliating me a lot. Shakeel had become wild and was suffering from severe depression. In this state, one day he told me that he was asking me for the last time whether he wanted to live with me or with those disabled children.
I said that Shakeel divorced me with the children, I started raising the children, the social department gave me a house and facilities,
funds started coming, and I became comfortable in the new house, instead of helping me, people in the community would kill my character, even if the pizza delivery guy came, he would associate it with my character, people started talking bad about me but I left everything and kept raising the children, fifteen years passed in this service and dedication, and when I was forty, I felt a dire need of a male companion, I wanted a husband who would love me, care about me, say "Well done Tanya", but there was no one, my brother, sister-in-law, my relatives, no one asked about me, one day I became friends with an ID named Imran on Facebook, when the matter progressed, I would tell Imran about my past life, he would encourage me, after a year of friendship, Imran said that he wanted to marry me, I was not satisfied, because Imran was thirteen years younger than me, But Imran was stubborn, time and circumstances also pushed me towards Imran, we fell in love and I went to Karachi and married Imran, as time passed, Imran came to the UK and started loving my disabled children, a very strong bond of love had been established between us, people used to say that when Imran gets his passport, he will leave you, my brother used to say that Imran married you only for the sake of the passport, I did not believe it but was afraid inside that this might happen, but when I got the passport, Imran did not leave me and today it has been seventeen years. I am fifty-six years old. Imran is with me. We are very happy, and we are both raising our disabled children together. Friends, we should not believe what people say, and we should never despair in life, just like Tanya remained hopeful and finally found a perfect life partner. We all have to encourage this woman who is raising two disabled children with perseverance and courage, and we all should say, Well done Tanta.