Is Natural Hair Really 'Too Much Work' — Or Do We Just Think It's Not Worth It?

Today we are discussing is natural hair too hard to manage?

Is natural hair actually hard to manage, or have we just been conditioned to believe it's not worth the effort? In this heartfelt video, I dive deep into the emotional, historical, and cultural layers of embracing your natural hair—especially as a Black woman or mother. From navigating shrinkage, protective styles, and wash-and-go routines to dealing with discrimination and internalized beauty standards, this conversation is both personal and powerful.

If you've ever felt like your natural hair journey is starting to feel like a full-time job, you're not alone. In this video, I open up about the ups and downs of managing natural hair - from the long wash days, detangling sessions, and styling routines, to the emotional toll of not feeling "beautiful enough" without straight hair or extensions.

So... is natural hair too hard to manage? I share the honest truth about natural hair manageability, especially for those with type 4 hair ranging from 4a to 4c and sometimes even 3b or 3c hair textures. I also break down the number one reason why many people feel burnt out when it comes to dealing with their curls and coils and how changing my routine made everything easier - from wash day tips to moisture retention and embracing my natural texture and hair!

Whether you're struggling to love your hair, looking for practical natural hair tips, or just want to hear from someone who's been there, this video is for you. Let's talk about protective styles, hair
porosity, the truth about natural hair struggles, and why your hair IS worth the effort.

Topics Discussed
• Why many believe natural hair is "too much work"
• How straight hair became the default standard of beauty
• The impact of natural hair representation on young Black girls
• Managing natural 4c hair and building a consistent hair care routine
• Whether wigs, weaves, or extensions are helping or hurting our self-image
• Tips for learning your own hair and finding what works best for you

Whether you're a natural hair veteran or just starting your natural hair journey, this video is a reminder that our hair is worth the work. You don't have to be perfect—just present, curious, and kind to yourself along the way.

What do YOU think—is natural hair truly difficult, or is it a mindset shift we need to embrace? Let’s talk in the comments!

Remember that there isn't ONE way to wear your hair, there are so many varieties and different styles you can do and try on your natural hair that allow you to embrace the fluff, the texture, and all of it's glory, you can check out videos here:

Twist outs on wet vs dry natural hair:    • Natural Hair Care for Length Retention | T...  

Retaining length without protective styling:    • The key to retaining length WITHOUT protec...  

Becoming a straight natural FAQ:    • The Truth About Being a Straight Natural |...  

Are Protective Styles Needed to Grow your Hair:    • Do You Need Protective Styles To Grow Natu...  

Learning to embrace your natural hair when you just don't like it:    • Loving Your Natural Hair When You've Been ...  

"Your natural hair is your pretty privilege" as the girls like to say, how to let your uniqueness work for you:    • How to embrace your uniqueness *Beauty in ...  

RECOMMENDED FOR:
Anyone starting their natural hair journey
Women who are fed up with their natural hair or think their natural hair is too much work or too time consuming

00:00 - Intro
01:47 - The reason people said they don’t wear their natural hair
04:15 - Convenience culture is toxic
07:03 - Natural hair is hard when you want your hair to be another texture
13:41 - Tips to help with manageability
17:10 - Is natural hair hard or do you feel it’s not worth it
19:45 - Older generation and their hair
21:03 - The way we wear our hair impacts little girls self esteem
26:38 - Tips to help with manageability if you want to start embracing your natural hair

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