Avoidants React Like This When They Realize They’ve Lost Someone Who Cared - Matthew Hussey Advice

Have you ever walked away from someone—or been the one left behind—and wondered, "Do they even realize what they lost?"

In this powerful session, we dive deep into the psychology of the Avoidant Attachment Style and the specific, often delayed, emotional explosion that happens when they finally wake up to the reality of their loss. For most people, the pain of a breakup is immediate. But for an avoidant, the realization often hits like a tidal wave months later, exactly when you’ve finally started to heal.

We explore why avoidants initially feel "relief" instead of grief, the moment their deactivating strategies fail, and the crushing "Comparison Phase" where they realize the grass isn't greener—it’s just empty. If you’ve been feeling discarded or invisible, this video will give you the clarity you need to understand their silence and, more importantly, how to reclaim your own power. Stop waiting for them to "get it" and start realizing that your worth was never tied to their inability to see it.

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