Narcissists and Public Humiliation: The Smear Campaign of a Narcissist

Narcissists and Public Humiliation: The Smear Campaign of a Narcissist

How & Why Narcs Shame You Publicly

Public humiliation is one of many ways that a narcissist will manipulate and psychologically abuse his or her sources of narcissistic supply.

In this video, I'll explain how a narcissist will humiliate you in public as part of an active smear campaign - and today I'm going to go a little more in depth on the public humiliation part of it - which, in my opinion, is one of the most traumatic parts of the whole smear campaign tactic.

Ask yourself:
Does he/she ever strike at you in anger, verbally or physically?
Does he/she call you names, put you down?
Does he/she humiliate, control or make you feel inferior?
These are all signs of abuse at the hands of your partner. Some insults are more subtle than others - as are some of the physical violence against you.
Early signs might include your partner playing too rough and then becoming upset or agitated when you indicate that you've had enough.

I'll also include several real-life examples of how a narcissist uses public humiliation, as well as a rundown of the red-flag warning signs you're being abused.

1. You are isolated, more than you used to be.
Have you been cut off to some degree from friends or family?
Does your partner seek to drive a wedge between you and other people you're close to?
Does he make you choose between him and others that love you?
These are all signs of the beginning of isolation. An abuser knows that his power over you must be absolute in order to have the true dominance he seeks. Friends and family members are competition - not to mention potential witnesses to the abuser's bad behavior.
2. You have no control of your money.
Does your partner control the finances? You should be equal partners when it comes to money matters. If your partner holds all of the power financially then he has power over your ability to stay, leave, spend money, and make decisions.
3. You really are "missing" the signs that someone else may consider obvious - maybe because they snuck up on you or because you're not ready to admit you're being abused (and who could blame you?).
Even if you think it's not a big deal, be honest with yourself - does your partner ever physically hit you, even if it seems innocent?


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