How to Set Boundaries Without Feeling Guilty or Mean

Setting boundaries doesn’t make you selfish.
And protecting your peace? That’s not “mean” — it’s necessary.
In this episode of the How to Convince podcast, I’m showing you how to set boundaries without guilt, second-guessing, or turning into someone you’re not.
Here’s what you’ll get:
✔️ The #1 mindset shift to stop feeling “mean” for saying no
✔️ Real scripts you can use with bosses, clients, and family
✔️ Coaching stories that prove guilt doesn’t mean you’re wrong
✔️ A new way to think about boundaries — not as rejection, but as instructions
✔️ The biggest myths that keep people-pleasers stuck
✔️ Listener Q&A: How to respond to guilt-trippers, “you’ve changed” comments, and late-night texters
If you’ve ever felt bad for honoring your own needs — this one’s for you.

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