HOW TO GET OVER BEING CHEATED ON

Being cheated on can be one of the most traumatic experiences a man or woman will go through. It hurts! Especially when you fully commit to someone with the expectations that you will be with them forever. That kind of pain can leave you feeling like your life is over. But it doesn't have to be that way.

I want to tell you a story about a time when I was cheated on myself. I was twenty four years old and I had just really began my journey into becoming a man. I had a brand new career and my mindset had began to shift. I had began to think that I wanted a family. So, in true Shumake of old fashion, I met a girl, we "fell in love", and we moved in with each other. The truth is that we moved way to fast and I ended up paying for it big time... She cheated on me.

Before I had even heard of the term "red pill knowledge", I had become "red pill". I promised myself that I would never allow myself to go through that again. So what did I do? I swore off relationships and I became solely focused on myself. I didn't care about anybody's feelings but my own and I lived that way for quite some time.

The hurt and pain of being cheated on had consumed me and I decided to get back at the woman that hurt me by making her regret doing me wrong. I channeled that negative energy into improving myself. At this point I started writing my goals down, reading books, and I attempted to make myself feel better by "living my life". That was a transformative period of time for me, but there was a draw back to my new way of living. I stayed in it too long and I became toxic.

In this video I'm going to tell you how to recover from being cheated on without becoming toxic. You can definitely use that pain to drive your ambition to becoming a better you. But I want to encourage you to not stay in the angry phase for too long. If you do, you will hurt alot of people that don't deserve to be hurt. Your ex is the one that cheated, so don't let your heartbreak make you become them.

I like to use my life experiences to help people that may be experiencing the same things I already went through in the past. This story was very impactful in the journey to becoming who I am today and I hope that you gain something useful from it.

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