Choose Yourself | Stop Proving to Others

Focus on yourself and stop proving a point to others.

In this video, we talk about what it really means to focus on yourself, decenter men, and let go of the need for external validation.

If you’ve been feeling stuck, emotionally drained, or constantly trying to be understood, this conversation is for you. Choosing yourself isn’t selfish — it’s necessary. When you stop performing for approval and start validating yourself, everything begins to shift.

In this video, we discuss: • How to focus on yourself without guilt
• Why proving a point keeps you stuck
• Decentering men and reclaiming your power
• Letting go of validation and people’s opinions
• How to choose yourself and protect your peace

This video is for anyone on a self-growth, healing, or personal development journey who is ready to stop explaining themselves and start becoming.

Well… my point is — focus on yourself.

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Timestamps

0:00 - You quantum leap when you choose yourself.
2:10 - Have a strong opinion of yourself🙌.
3:19 - Stop caring about what everybody thinks
5:10 Protect yourself, your mind, and the thought process.
5:59 - Your best investment is you❤.
7:03 Your life doesn't have to make sense to anyone but you.
8:04 Make yourself the center life your life.
9:38 Decenter men, and center yourself
10:57 - Stop proving to others and start improving yourself.
12:35 - How to focus on yourself
15:02 - Validate yourself

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