STOP Wasting Time with Ineffective Methods | Machiavelli’s Hidden Rule

They Love Outcomes, Not Intentions — Protect Your Time | Machiavelli’s Brutal Truth



Goodness shouldn’t make you invisible. This video shows how to turn kindness into governed goodness—clear rails, calm consequences, and reliable cadence—so people respect your time instead of mining it. If your automatic yes, instant replies, and endless apologies trained others to expect you for free, this is the reset.

👉 What You’ll Learn

Why incentives beat intentions and how to stop being “infrastructure”

Scarcity with certainty: two reply windows that train respect

No agenda, no meeting: simple rails that kill quiet theft

The Rule of Three for boundaries: restate, reduce access, remove access

One-Page Promise: aim, levers, metric, checkpoint

Dimmer-switch consequences and clean exits that change behavior

Short scripts that teach without theatre: “That doesn’t work for me,” “Swap or extend,” “We’re done for today”

A seven-day starter plan and a 30-day reset to make your kindness durable

👉 Watch till the end for templates, scripts, and a step-by-step install you can run this week.

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💬 Community Prompt: Comment “I choose governed goodness.”

📚 References (Primary Source)
Niccolò Machiavelli — The Prince (1532)
Ch. 17 — Feared vs loved
Ch. 18 — Appearances and keeping faith
Ch. 15 — What is praised vs what is useful
Ch. 19 — Avoiding contempt and hatred
Ch. 7 — Borgia and decisive action
Ch. 6 — Founders and new orders
Ch. 3 — Mixed loyalties
Ch. 8 — Cruelty well used
Ch. 25 — Fortune and prudence

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