S2 EP07: No Labels, All Feelings: Why Situationships Hurt the Most

Are you dating? Just hanging out? Something more? In this episode, Chika & Sangría dive into the messy, confusing world of situationships - those undefined relationships that leave you wondering where you stand. We’re talking about why they happen, the signs you’re in one, how they affect your mental health, and whether they can ever turn into something real. We break down when it’s time to ask the question everyone’s avoiding: ‘What are we?’ Whether you’re currently stuck in relationship limbo or trying to avoid it, this conversation is for you.

🎙️ WHAT WE TALK ABOUT:
00:00 Intro
01:38 Defining a Situationship
04:36 Are We Avoiding Accountability?
06:51 Would You Accept Someone Who’s Uncertain or Non-Committal?
09:58 Do Situationships Involve Physical Intimacy?
10:55 Is It Okay to Suggest a Situationship?
13:25 Would You Set Boundaries in a Situationship?
14:40 Will You Ask for a Label or End the Situationship?
18:01 The Downsides of Situationships
23:12 Situationship vs Friends With Benefits — What’s the Difference?
26:50 Personal Reflections and Advice

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We’re two Filipinas in our 30s, navigating love, work, and life after years of living abroad. Living in Barcelona, Spain, we share real, unfiltered stories of Filipinos in Spain — from living in Spain as a Filipino and working abroad, to career pivots, culture shocks, friendships, and healing from love gone wrong.

Each episode explores the honest realities of life abroad — from adapting to Spanish work culture and dating, to identity, balance, self-discovery, and starting over far from home. Expect warmth, laughter, and honest chika over sangría (or whatever drink’s in your hand).

If you’re a Pinoy in Spain, dreaming of moving abroad, or simply figuring out life and career in your 30s — pull up a chair, pour your favorite drink, and let’s talk. 🍷

🎙️ Topics we cover: living in Spain, working abroad, career growth, moving to Spain, love and healing, adulting, friendships, Barcelona living, dating abroad, and podcast healing moments.

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