I’m Not Driven

In today’s video, I’m sharing a raw, honest realization that completely shifted the way I look at ambition, drive, and the life I'm building. For years people told me I was “driven” — gym 7 days a week, meal prepping, content creation, routines, structure… but the truth is, I had no real results to show for it.

This conversation forced me to confront the gap between being busy and being truly driven. I talk about:

00:41 The Illusion of Being Driven
02:10 Comparing Myself to Others
03:27 Misplaced Energy and Priorities
04:51 The Problem: Understimulation and Boredom
06:27 Waiting for the Right Moment
07:50 Dating Apps and Self-Judgment
09:58 Judging Others, Judging Myself
11:16 Financial Reality Check
12:24 Rethinking Life Plans as a Single Woman
14:36 Letting Go of Expectations
15:42 From Dreamer to Go-Getter
16:19 Becoming the Person I Need

If you’ve ever felt like you're doing “everything right” but still not moving forward… this video is for you.

Drop your questions or thoughts in the comments — I’m open to talk about anything.

Love you. 💛

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