Gezingcondo high School, Motivational talk for Grade 12 learners.Zithande / Love ve yourself

Gezigqondo High School is in Goromane Village, situated near Hazyview, Mpumalanga Province. Guest speaker Bella Lubisi Motivational Speaker, addressed Grade 12 on 22nd of October 2021.
Topic: Self Actualization.
HOW TO SELF ACTUALISE YOURSELF

I have used Manslow Hierarchy of needs.

Satisfy all six needs
1. Physiological need
Basic needs should be satisfied: shelter, food and clothing. when learners go to tertiary they can choose to stay at the university residential area because the room provided to them, there will be bed, table and chair. Food will be in the dining hall. what about the clothes? they should not worry about wearing expensive clothes, as long they have clothes to wear when going to the classroom it will be fine.

2. Safety
The tertiary residential area is always safe, there are security guards, CCTV. It will assist in learners being relaxed and able to concentrate on their studies.
always lock your room and take care of study materials. should you have friends, when going out with them, let your family know your whereabouts and you can even take a picture of your friends and send it to reliable family members.

3. Belonging
We all belong somewhere when you are in the university please do not neglect your own family, keep in touch. do not change your lifestyle and change your mother tongue.

4. Esteem
love yourself/ Zithande. avoid the blesser/ blessee relationships. That is the relationship whereby the young girls exchange their bodies for sex to adult males and young boys exchange their bodies for sex to adult females to receive gifts and money.
Ask yourself these questions: 1. Are you aware that by compromising your body you can acquire sexually transmitted diseases?
2. Are you aware that compromising your body you will get the tertiary qualification and we bury you?
3 What is important? to be identified in the mortuary after you have died of sexually transmitted diseases or being murdered by the blesser or sugar mama. Or to come back home holding a university degree?
ZITHANDE / LOVE YOURSELF. LEAVE A CLEAN LIFE.

Be proud that your university fee was paid by your parents, bursary or study loan, not a blesser or sugar mama.

ZITHANDE / LOVE YOURSELF.

5. Self Actualisation
Come back holding a qualification, boost the economy of your community. continue and study.


6. Sexuality

Many people think dressing in expensive clothes is very important. What is important is your self-worth. avoid the blesser/ blessee relationship. avoid the sugar mama toyboy relationship. Zithande.

Thank you.

Bella lubisi Motivational speaker has written 22 motivational books.
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