Father who destroyed his own daughter | Iftikhar Ahmad Usmani | parents | toxic relationship

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The story of J is about a girl named Zarina whose parents were unhappy with each other and used to quarrel all the time. When Zarina was little, she was afraid of her parents' quarrels. Her father was a very strict person and her mother also did not understand her daughter's feelings. When Zarina reached Madak, she heard her father talking about love with a foreign woman one day. Her father was making love to a foreign woman on the phone. One day, Zarina checked her father's mobile and found chat and audio messages that did not come within the scope of morality in any way. When Zarina told this secret to her mother and her mother asked her husband, the husband refused and Zarina was considered a liar in her mother's eyes. When she passed FSC, her father got Zarina engaged to a forty-year-old man named Munir. Munir was a foreman in a company in Saudi Arabia. Zarina did not like Munir. Munir used to call from Saudi Arabia and Zarina was banned. On Munir's orders, she went to nursing. In the nursing college, Zarina met a government head clerk named Akmal, who was fifty years old. Akmal spoke to Zarina with great courtesy and respect. Meanwhile, the brother of one of Zarina's classmates brought news from Saudi Arabia that Munir was not a foreman but a laborer and had divorced his wife while he also had a child. When Zarina told this to her parents, her father said that he already knew all this. Munir was a land lord and Zarina would marry Munir. Zarina's heart was broken and she found a loving person in Akmal. Zarina fell in love with Akmal. When Zarina expressed her love to Akmal, he replied that he was already married and had young children, so he could not marry Zarina. Hearing this, Zarina became even more mad with the pain of being rejected. She had fallen in love with Akmal. After telling this whole story, Zarina started crying and asked me what she should do? I replied that actually it is not love, it is the first contact, because Zarina’s first contact was with a man who respected her and spoke to her with love, whom Zarina started liking. After my explanation, Zenia asked what she should do? I said that go to a person in your family who your father believes and end the relationship with Munir, and apologize to Akmal and remove the idea of ​​marrying him from your heart. Zarina understood what I said. After fifteen days, Zarina called and told her that she had contacted one of her father’s cousins ​​and on his explanation, her father ended her engagement to Munir. While Zarina apologized to Ajmal and removed Akmal’s hard work from her heart, and now Zarina’s parents will marry her according to her choice. Tell me, did Zarina do the right thing?
Friends, those married couples who fight with each other, their children's minds become fearful in childhood and their minds become distorted. Children become anxious and some children even go crazy. Therefore, do not fight in front of your children.