Tracee Ellis Ross Said What?! Should Older Women Start Dating Down in Age?What about when men do it?

Tracee Ellis Ross Said What?! Should Older Women Start Dating Down in Age?

In this episode of The Blac Pill, we dive deep into Tracee Ellis Ross’s vulnerable and straight-up real convo from Michelle Obama’s podcast series “The Light,” where she opened up about dating, getting older, and navigating love in a world that still pushes outdated expectations on women.

At 52, Tracee kept it raw — she admitted she grieves not being married or having kids. Not because she ain't happy, but because it's something she thought would’ve happened by now. She said: “I grieve the things that I thought would be and that are not.” That line alone sparked convo all across the internet — and we’re breaking down why it hit so many women (and men) in the feels.

But Tracee didn’t stop there.

She also peeled back the curtain on her experiences dating younger men — and made it clear: a lot of dudes her age? Still locked into that toxic masculinity mindset. Still stuck in outdated gender roles. Still scared of a woman who knows who she is. That’s why she’s been exploring relationships with younger guys who are emotionally open, more flexible, and not intimidated by a strong, successful woman living life on her own terms.

She even said she don’t mess with dating apps, and she ain’t out here begging for attention. Tracee is living her life fully, without apology, and she’s looking for someone who adds to it — not someone she has to carry. No more settling just to say you got somebody.

So, we gotta ask — is this the new wave? Should more women start looking younger instead of older when it comes to love? And what does that say about where we are as a culture right now?

Whether you’re out here dating, healing, or figuring yourself out — this episode is for you. We talk self-worth, double standards, age gaps, real love vs performative relationships, and how older women flipping the dating script is changing the whole game.

This ain’t just about Tracee — it’s about real life.

—

SUPPORT THE MOVEMENT:
This platform is for the people, powered by the people. If you rock with the content, help keep us going.

CashApp: $blacatom

Ko-fi: theatomaffect

Every dollar helps us stay independent, keep it raw, and bring you more unfiltered convos like this.

—

What’s Inside This Episode:

Tracee Ellis Ross opens up about dating grief & the pressure of not having kids

Why older women are dating younger men in 2025

How toxic masculinity still affects dating for successful women

Why Tracee says she doesn’t use dating apps

Michelle Obama’s surprising reaction and support

Is the “older woman, younger man” era here to stay?

—

Like, subscribe, and turn on notifications so you never miss another real convo from The Blac Pill – the only podcast brave enough to say what everyone else whispers.

The Blac Pill: Your Daily Dose of Unfiltered Truth

Tune in to The Blac Pill for a no-holds-barred dive into the daily news cycle.

Join us as we dissect the latest headlines, expose hidden agendas, and challenge the mainstream narrative. Our mission is to provide you with independent journalism that cuts through the noise and delivers the unfiltered truth.

Expect to hear about:

Unbiased Reporting: We're committed to delivering objective news analysis, free from corporate influence.
In-Depth Analysis: Our expert hosts delve deep into the issues that matter most, providing insightful commentary and expert opinions.
Community-Driven: We encourage viewer participation and value your input. Join the conversation in our live chat and share your thoughts.
Support Independent Journalism: Your donations help us continue producing high-quality content. Donate at $blacatom.
#hiphop #hiphopnews

Note: All information discussed in this episode is based on available sources and is intended for entertainment purposes only.