Why Single Women Over 30 Are a Red Flag for Older Men

In this video I detail why leftover women are a red flag for older men due to the characteristics of the modern online dating culture world where mids get banged by top tier guys and then are resentful to settle with guys on their level, and are delusional to think that a guy banging them equates to that guy being interested in a relationship.

Here I get into why I would assume a 30 year old leftover woman was probably engaging in hypergamous sex relationships where she had no chance of getting the guy to settle for her, and friendzoned the guys on her level. I get into why I don't want some leftover woman to settle for me after getting ran through by a bunch of chads and tyrones. How Robert de Niro sired a daughter at 79 years old, and the age gap is a feminist west societal construct. I at 39 years old am intersted in 25 year old hotties.

Women aged 25 29, here’s an honest look at what gets excluded from feminist echo chambers about when you step into your 30s — when dating pressures, timing and biology start to matter. I explore from a 39 year old man’s perspective why younger women may face fewer relationship challenges, how choices now affect your future, and what’s really going on behind the euphemisms.
In this Short you’ll learn:
• Why younger women (25 29) often have less baggage, stronger pair bonding chemistry and more relational flexibility
• The “piggy bank of youth” metaphor: how time, beauty & choices accumulate and eventually matter
• Why men’s biological clocks often allow them more flexibility — and what that contrast means for relationships
• How modern hypergamy and dating culture can leave many women over 30 feeling settled rather than chosen
• Why being intentional about your values and timing matters more than reacting to pressure
👉 Watch the full discussion here:    • Κάτι συμβαίνει με τους άντρες σήμερα: Η μι...   (first 27 minutes in Greek then the rest in English)
Carsten’s essay to generate this description:
Younger women have less baggage, are more beautiful, feminine, soft; they have not lowered their pair bonding chemical process capabilities by sleeping with a lot of men.
I, as a 39 year old man, am interested in women ideally between 25 29. I don’t want a woman over 30 who is running out of time, after dating in a hypergamous way with guys above her league who won’t settle for her. I am interested in a hotter, younger, 25 year old woman with less baggage and a lower body count. Especially now with Tinder, when I meet a 30 plus woman, I am just thinking: how many guys have slept with her, and why was she always chasing higher value guys who are players and will then see me as someone she’s settling for? So for me, I want a woman who can pair bond with me with a lower body count to ensure a successful future relationship. In addition, I don’t want the pressure of dating a woman over 30 who is perhaps looking to settle for me.
Women by the time they are 40 or 45 can’t have kids anymore; I, as a 39 year old guy, in ten more years will still be able to have kids.
In feminist echo chambers, women aren’t learning that hypergamy is leading to many women ending up single. Women don’t understand that men will sleep with them without the intention of committing to a relationship. Then, when they finally realize they should settle for a man who, on the looks scale, is on their level—because the higher level men they chase are just pumping and dumping them—it is too late, and they have lost much of their beauty and youth.

Some science in the mix to help educate women who want to expand their horizons from the feminist echo chambers that try to exclude these topics of conversation:
A brief look at what peer reviewed research is revealing about body count and pair bonding capacity and women should be conscientious of this:
air bonding refers to the enduring attachment formed between sexual/mating partners, often associated with selective affinity, exclusive affiliation, and long term commitment. Research from socially monogamous species such as the prairie vole has demonstrated the central role of neuro hormonal systems—specifically oxytocin, vasopressin and dopamine—in driving partner preference formation, partner guarding behaviours, and affiliative bonding.
In humans, large scale survey data have highlighted correlations (not confirmed causation) between higher numbers of premarital sexual partners and lower reported marital happiness or stability for women. One summary of sexual history data found that women with few lifetime partners were more likely to report “very happy” marriages, whereas those with higher partner counts reported somewhat lower odds. This is why so many men even 50 and 60 year olds still are interested in young women, as a woman with a lower body count is regarded as a partner with higher pair bonding capabilities, regardless of age men prefer women under 30.

💬 If you’re a woman in your twenties willing to explore a viewpoint beyond the usual echo chamber — drop your thoughts