It HURTS But Isn’t EMOTIONAL ABUSE: 6 Signs

Is it emotional abuse or just a hard marriage? If you're walking on eggshells, feeling shut down, or living in relationship survival mode, it can be incredibly difficult to tell the difference between a toxic relationship and one that is struggling but recoverable.

In this video, we reveal 6 clear signs that the hurtful behavior you're experiencing might NOT be emotional abuse, but rather a lack of relational skills or a stress response.

Understanding the difference between systemic control (often seen with narcissistic traits) and genuine struggle is vital for your mental health. We discuss how to identify rapid repair, genuine accountability, and the "Context vs. Cover" of hurtful behavior to help you find clarity and stop the confusion in your marriage.
In this video, you will learn:

The difference between inconsistent behavior and systemic abuse patterns.
Why "rapid repair" is a key indicator of safety.
How to test if boundaries lead to de-escalation or retaliation.
The vital role of curiosity in a healthy partner.

00:00 Intro: The Other Side of Emotional Abuse
00:49 6 Signs It Hurts But Isn't Abuse
01:24 Sign 1: Rapid Repair & Taking Responsibility
02:17 Sign 2: Inconsistent vs. Systemic Behavior
03:07 Sign 3: Do Boundaries Lead to Change?
03:56 Sign 4: Unconditional Accountability
04:40 Sign 5: Curiosity vs. Control
05:37 Sign 6: Observable Change Over Time
06:16 Context vs. Cover: Moving Forward

Watch Next:
Hard Marriage vs Emotional Abuse? 5 Questions That Reveal the Difference
   • Hard Marriage vs Emotional Abuse? 5 Questi...  

#emotionalabuse #relationshipadvice #toxicrelationships #marriagestruggle #relationshipsurvivalmode