Too "Pretty" or "Handsome" to be Autistic?

“You’re too pretty (or handsome) to be autistic.” Ever heard that one? In this video, I break down why autism has nothing to do with physical appearance — and how stereotypes, masking, and camouflaging shape how we’re perceived. From hyper-feminine style to sensory-friendly “safe clothes,” I share my own experiences and highlight the hidden struggles that get dismissed when someone “doesn’t look autistic.” If you’ve ever been told you don’t look autistic, or want a deeper understanding of how neurodiversity impacts appearance and perception, this video is for you.

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SOURCES:
The Social Motivation Theory of Autism
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles...

Aspienwomen: Moving towards an Adult Female Profile of Autism/Asperger Syndrome/Neurodivergence
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