Taking Responsibility | Parsha with the Chief: Shemot

Taking responsibility is one of the most subtle yet powerful forces shaping your life. Subtle, because it lives in the inner world, often invisible to others. Powerful, because it can change your life.

Responsibility is, by definition, a heavy and demanding burden, but knowing how to harness its power will uplift your relationships, family, work and the trajectory of your personal growth.

In Parshat Shemot, we meet Moshe Rabbeinu at the very beginning of his journey toward leadership. Before he speaks to Pharaoh, before miracles, before authority, Moses repeatedly steps forward when others step back, intervening in injustice, defending the vulnerable, and acting when “there is no one else.”

Yet when Hashem calls upon him to lead the Jewish people, Moshe hesitates.

Why would someone who takes responsibility so instinctively resist leadership?

Drawing on Pirkei Avot and the teachings of our Sages, Chief Rabbi Dr. Warren Goldstein explores a profound distinction: the difference between doing a task and carrying the mental load - the inner responsibility for whether something truly succeeds or fails.

Our Sages teach that the first place where there is “no one else” is within ourselves. Responsibility begins internally, long before it becomes visible leadership.

This talk offers a Torah framework for understanding leadership, self-mastery, and the quiet inner work that precedes all meaningful responsibility.

Key Ideas
Responsibility is defined by the mental load, not by visible action
The first place where there is “no one else” is within oneself
Torah leadership flows from the inside out
Moshe’s reluctance was humility, not avoidance
Responsibility must be taken 'leshem shamayim'