Butt Stuff 101: The Beginner’s Guide to Pleasure (Without the Awkwardness)

Curious about butt stuff but don’t know where to start? You’re not alone. In this beginner-friendly guide, I sit down with Tim Lagman, certified s*x educator and host of S*x Ed With Tim, to break down how to make backdoor play fun, safe, and yes—seriously pleasurable.

Together we cover:
✅ How to warm up the right way
✅ What lube + toys make it easy and enjoyable
✅ Tips to keep things sexy (not awkward)
✅ How to let go of shame and actually enjoy it

This isn’t about porn myths—it’s about real pleasure, confidence, and connection. Whether you’re curious or ready to dive in, you’ll leave knowing exactly how to do it right.

Disclaimer: This content is intended for adult audiences and is for educational and informational purposes only. No explicit content is shown or described in graphic detail.

📌 This video discusses gender, identity, and intimacy from a mental health and inclusivity lens. All language used complies with YouTube's Community Guidelines.

📌 This content supports shame-free, affirming conversations around sex, gender, and self-expression and is presented in a respectful and non-explicit format.

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