Best Places To Live In the Philippines (For Western Retirees)

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So you’re thinking about retiring in the Philippines? Maybe part-time, maybe full-time… or maybe you just want a fresh start somewhere warm, friendly, and easy on the wallet. You’re not alone. Thousands of Western men—especially those between 45 and 75—are making the move or planning their escape. But with over 7,000 islands and wildly different climates, lifestyles, and costs of living… the big question is: Where should you live?

In this video, Chrissy and I dig deep into the three most popular retirement choices in the Philippines:

Chill Beach Towns (like Panglao, Dumaguete, and Siquijor)

Bustling Cities (think Cebu, Davao, Iloilo, or Makati)

Cool Mountain Areas (like Tagaytay, Baguio, and Uptown Cagayan de Oro)

We’ve personally lived through this decision, and we break it down in this casual, seated morning-show format. You’ll get insight, some laughs, and real talk from two people who’ve actually done it.

Whether you’re a single man dreaming of palm trees and love, a couple looking to lower expenses without sacrificing comfort, or just curious what life outside the West might look like, this one’s for you.

We’re sharing:

Why most men choose the wrong place first

What really happens when you follow a girlfriend to her hometown

Why the beach is paradise… until the power goes out

What cities offer in terms of modern hospitals, fast internet, and safety

Why the mountain breeze might just be the secret to long-term comfort

What 403 of our YouTube subscribers said was most important when choosing a retirement spot (We ran a poll and the answers surprised us!)

This video is based in part on our book:

Fly Me to the Philippines: A Modern Man’s Guide to Living, Traveling, and Finding Love in the Philippines

This isn’t some cookie-cutter travel guide. It’s a 300+ page deep dive into housing, cost of living, dating, retirement visas, online dating pitfalls, and the cultural nuances of building a relationship—and a life—here. If you’re even thinking about the Philippines, this book will save you time, money, and headaches.

Curious about a personal consultation?

If you’re planning a trip or seriously exploring relocation, you can book a FREE 10-minute intro call with me to see if my one-on-one consulting service is the right fit.

Here’s the link:

https://flymetothephilippinesconsulta...



We talk to over 300 men per year—many of whom were just like you: a little overwhelmed, a little unsure, but looking for something real. Whether you’re just getting started or already planning your move, I’ll help you ask the right questions, avoid rookie mistakes, and build a plan that works for your priorities.

Search terms we naturally cover in this video:

Where to retire in the Philippines

Best cities to live in the Philippines as a foreigner

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Beach town vs mountain city for expats

Philippines cost of living 2025

Retiring in Dumaguete vs Cagayan de Oro

Pros and cons of beach living in Southeast Asia

How to pick the right city in the Philippines

Medical care and infrastructure for expats

Quiet places to live in the Philippines with breeze

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Thanks for watching. Let us know in the comments where you’re considering moving—and why. We respond to as many as we can.