Narcissist Parents: "I Was Raised by a Narcissistic Mother" (Gaslighting 101)

De Tea is a survivor of narcissistic abuse from an adoptive, malignant narcissist mother. She is an artist, poet, and student of psychology. In this special Podcast episode of the Psychopath Exposure show, we uncover the damage a narcissistic mother inflicts on her child and how it affects them in adolescence and adulthood. Also in the show, we dive deep into what gaslighting really is, the rise of narcissism online, AI slop, how Chat GPT really works and why it will never replace a real psychologist. If you've experienced trauma at the hands of a narcissist parent, you won't want to miss this one.
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0:00 – Early Life & Adoption
Guest’s beginnings: abandonment as a baby, lies from her narcissistic adoptive mother.

4:40 – Growing Up With a Narcissistic Parent
Control, deceit, and emotional abuse throughout her childhood.

8:40 – Discovering the Truth at 13
How she found out she was adopted and the impact of that revelation.

11:00 – Teenage Struggles & Coping Mechanisms
Poetry, punishment, and being institutionalized.

15:30 – First Encounters With Narcissism Awareness
Losing her job after her dog’s death, stumbling upon the concept of narcissism online.

19:00 – Falling Into a Toxic Relationship
How vulnerability after grief led to being targeted and love-bombed by another narcissist.

30:00 – Devaluation & Abuse Patterns
How the abuser eroded her self-esteem and engaged in triangulation.

1:07:20 – AI as a Tool vs AI as a Threat
Practical uses (translation, travel) versus risks (scams, cheating, content fakery).

1:11:00 – AI Writing & Slop Content
Spotting copy-paste GPT text on LinkedIn, YouTube scripts, and the rise of AI “slop.”

1:14:00 – Fake Voices & Stolen Identities
AI-generated voices of Jordan Peterson, Carl Jung, and deceased mentors.

1:19:00 – Gaslighting, Misuse & Real Examples
Personal story of being accused of stealing a “golden watch” as an example of real gaslighting.

1:23:00 – True NPD vs Narcissistic Traits
Clarifying misuse of the term and recognizing predictable NPD behavior.

1:28:30 – Educating Survivors in Hungarian
Launching her YouTube channel to fill the gap in native-language resources.

1:30:00 – Am I a Narcissist Too?
Guest questions her own traits of grandiosity vs insignificance, tied to upbringing.

1:35:30 – Shades of Narcissism
The idea of “good narcissists,” self-awareness, and nuance beyond black-and-white thinking.

1:45:00 – Art as Healing
How her paintings (often glowing in the dark) reflect both trauma and hope.

1:48:00 – Night vs Day Safety
Why she feels safer in darkness than in daylight; distinction between “asocial” vs “antisocial.”

1:51:00 – Digital Art & AI Tools
Debate over whether digital and AI art count as “real art.”

1:59:00 – The Future of AI & Creativity
The risk of AI replacing jobs, but also its potential as a tool for inspiration.

2:08:00 – Closing Thoughts & Connection
Reflections on using AI wisely, links to her Hungarian channel The Other Side, and encouragement to survivors.

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