Modern Masculinity: What does it mean?

In this episode of More In Common, hosts Gerren Taylor and Keith Richardson sit down with sociologist and systems-change strategist Nicholas Miller to explore the evolving meaning of masculinity in today’s world.

Using public conversations around modern masculinity—including ideas popularized by Scott Galloway—as a starting point, the group examines how masculinity has always been shaped by economic systems, social expectations, and access to opportunity. They discuss why narratives around rugged individualism, dominance, and self-reliance no longer serve most men—and never truly served everyone equally.

The conversation addresses the growing male loneliness crisis, the misdirection of resentment toward women and immigrants, and why redefining masculinity isn’t about blame—but about reconnection. Rather than offering a single definition, the episode makes space for multiple masculinities rooted in care, accountability, protection, and community.

This episode launches a multi-part series exploring masculinity, identity, and what it means to belong in a rapidly changing world.



Key Takeaways

Masculinity is socially constructed, not biologically fixed

There has never been one “correct” way to be a man

Economic systems shape identity more than we admit

Loneliness is a structural issue, not a personal failure

Blame narratives distract from systemic causes

Protection, care, and accountability are undervalued masculine traits

Redefining masculinity is essential for healthier relationships and communities

Chapter Timestamps

00:00 – Why Masculinity Is Having a Moment
02:45 – What People Mean When They Say “Masculinity Is Broken”
06:10 – Masculinity as a Social and Economic Construction
10:55 – Rugged Individualism: Who It Served and Who It Didn’t
15:30 – The Male Loneliness Epidemic
19:40 – Why Resentment Gets Misplaced
24:10 – Patriarchy, Feminism, and Misunderstanding Power
28:50 – Multiple Masculinities Across Race and Class
33:20 – Protection vs. Domination
38:10 – Redefining Masculinity Through Connection
42:30 – Why This Conversation Is Just Beginning

About the Guest

Nicholas Miller is a tenured sociology professor at Sacramento City College, founder of multiple workforce pipeline programs, and co-founder of nationally recognized initiatives supporting justice-impacted students. He is also the founder of Conduits for Change, partnering with organizations to build equity-driven cultures and sustainable community impact.



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