The Dismissive Avoidant: From CRUMBS to OBSESSION (The 6 Stages of Regret)

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Have you ever loved a dismissive avoidant and felt invisible?
This video breaks down the 6 stages of regret — from crumbs to obsession — and explains how silence, boundaries, and self-respect make them realize your worth, often too late.
WATCH THIS VIDEO TO UNDERSTAND:
Why they never respond to tears but react to absence

How your boundaries trigger their internal system

Why your silence is more powerful than chasing them


Timestamps:
00:00 – | Part 1 — Hook
They didn’t lose you when you begged. They didn’t regret it when you cried.
Learn why your silence hurts them more than your tears — and how regret slowly turns into obsession.
01:51 – | Part 2 — Psychology / Insight: The 6 Stages of Regret
Relief – They feel free when you stop chasing.

Devaluation – They rewrite the story to protect themselves.

Emotional Silence – Absence creates discomfort they can’t ignore.

Curiosity – They start checking if you’ve moved on.

Regret – Your unwavering stance hits them hard.

Obsession – They replay moments, imagining what could have been.

04:40 – | Part 3 — Emotional Realization / Shift Moment
Discover the shift moment when you stop accepting crumbs and become unforgettable.
Understand why they finally notice your worth — and why obsession is not love, but unresolved attachment.
07:22 – | Part 4 — Resolution + CTA
Your power is in walking away without explanation.
Don’t chase closure. Don’t prove your worth. Let silence do the work.
Comment “clarity” if you’ve experienced this cycle, and subscribe for psychology that empowers, not gives false hope.

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