The Avoidant Pulls Away & A SECURE Person Changes Everything With THIS RESPONSE

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When a Dismissive Avoidant pulls away, it can leave you feeling powerless, anxious, and uncertain about where you stand. But the truth is, how you respond in these moments determines the future of the relationship. In this video, Thais Gibson reveals what Securely Attached individuals do differently and how you can apply these strategies to transform push-pull dynamics into healthy, productive outcomes.

You’ll discover how attachment timelines differ across styles, why rushing or people-pleasing backfires, and how to communicate your needs with clarity and confidence. Instead of getting trapped in the “gray area” or pushing an avoidant further away, you’ll learn to hold boundaries, express yourself, and create space for real commitment.

You’ll learn:

✅ Why Dismissive Avoidants commit on a much slower timeline (3–6 months vs. 2–3 months for secure partners)
✅ How Securely Attached individuals communicate needs without pressure or ultimatums
✅ Why people-pleasing and silencing your needs only create resentment later
✅ The exact script for sharing your needs while honoring the avoidant’s pace
✅ How to create natural consequences (not threats) that earn respect and clarity
✅ Why backing yourself builds security, whether the avoidant commits or not

Episode Breakdown:
00:00 – Intro
00:29 – The Attachment Styles in the Dating Stage
03:17 – Example: Dismissive Avoidant and Secure Partnership
04:42 – A Secure Attachment’s Approach to Talking About Commitment
08:17 – 7-Day Free Trial Promo
09:12 – If the Dismissive Avoidant Is Unsure
12:11 – Conclusion

Meet the Host
Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships.

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