Stop Being the Good Girl: Why Kindness Without Boundaries Destroys Respect |By Joshua selman

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Stop being the “good girl” who is constantly overlooked, undervalued, and disrespected. This powerful 28 minutes and 40 seconds motivational speech dives deep into the hidden reasons why being overly nice, passive, and people-pleasing often leads to a lack of honor, respect, and recognition in life, relationships, and purpose. Through intense truth, wisdom, and conviction, this message exposes the danger of kindness without boundaries and goodness without identity. If you’ve ever felt taken for granted, emotionally exhausted, or invisible despite doing everything right, this speech will awaken you to a new level of self-respect, clarity, and authority. This is not about becoming harsh, but about becoming whole, grounded, and aligned so respect follows you naturally.

Why Should You Watch ?

You should watch this video if you are tired of being the one who always understands, always sacrifices, and always endures—yet receives little respect in return. This message will challenge long-held beliefs about goodness, silence, and endurance, and help you recognize how boundaries, identity, and self-mastery shape how people treat you. It will empower you to stop shrinking, stop apologizing for your needs, and stop negotiating your dignity for acceptance. By the end of this message, you will understand how to embody calm authority, speak with clarity, and walk in a level of confidence that commands respect without shouting or manipulation. This is a must-watch for anyone ready to move from survival to alignment.

⏱️ Timestamps

⏳ 00:00 – Introduction: Why being “good” isn’t earning respect
🔥 02:45 – The hidden danger of people-pleasing
🧠 05:30 – Kindness without boundaries is self-betrayal
⚠️ 08:20 – Why silence teaches people to disrespect you
💡 11:10 – The difference between humility and self-erasure
🛑 14:00 – How to set boundaries without guilt
👑 16:40 – Identity: the foundation of authority
🔍 19:15 – Why some people only respect what they can lose
⚖️ 22:10 – Love, truth, and the power of standards
🚀 25:30 – Becoming grounded, not aggressive
🏁 27:50 – Final awakening: letting respect follow you

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