College Breaks & Changing Relationships with Dr. Lisa Damour

When our daughter went off to college, I expected that she would change and she has. In a completely amazing, independent way. What I didn't expect is that we would change too. Now, she's home for holiday break and we're both navigating this changing relationship with no roadmap. (Time to call in an expert for some advice!)

This week on Laugh Lines, Penn and I are joined by one of our favorite humans and parenting expert, Dr. Lisa Damour. She helps us navigate this weird, wonderful in-between that happens when your college kid comes home. We cover everything from crossed wires and unspoken expectations to late wake-ups, missed dinners, and the moment you realize you’re not parenting a kid anymore — you’re kind of living with a roommate.

We also talk about why college kids basically hibernate when they come home, how to know when something is actually wrong, and how to celebrate the amazing new person your child is becoming — even when it feels unfamiliar. Plus, Penn goes full science nerd... again. (Don't say I didn't warn you!)

We love to hear from you (and tell us what you want in 2026!) leave us a message at 323-364-3929 or write the show at [email protected]. You can also listen to this show wherever you get podcasts. #podcast #holidays #parenting #college

Learn more about Dr. Lisa Damour and her work: https://drlisadamour.com/

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00:00 Welcome to Laugh Lines!
3:17 A Beach Boys Sung Update
8:54 College Parenting Reality
15:00 Welcome Dr. Lisa Damour!
20:41 Be A Good Roommate
24:03 Most Common Issues
29:30 Tackling Deeper Concerns
35:01 A New Relationship
41:24 Location Tracking
48:16 drlisadamour.com
54:19 Penn's 3-Piece Nuggets