Kamala Harris: The Myth of Being a “Good Woman” | Rich Little Brokegirls

Kamala Harris refuses to be a “Good Woman.” You should, too.

In this rare and deeply personal conversation, ⁠Kimberly⁠ is joined by Vice President Kamala Harris to reflect on womanhood, ambition, partnership, and the mental stamina required to cut through doubt and criticism.

Harris reframes one of the most enduring and limiting expectations placed on women: the pressure to be a “good woman.” She unpacks how humility has historically been used to police women and makes a case for a different standard rooted in conviction, self-trust, and refusing to shrink.

Drawing from her own life, Harris reflects on the weight of being “the first,” the importance of choosing the right circle to get you there, and offers rare advice for single women balancing ambition with finding “the one.”

Kim’s biggest takeaway? Don’t let things happen to you.

Together, they discuss:
Why ambition was never the problem and why women were taught to hide it.
The myth of the “good woman” and how it has been used to police women.
How to cut through doubt, noise, and projection without letting it live in your head.
What power, partnership, and finding “the one” really look like without the timeline panic.

Related reading: 107 Days: A Memoir of a Campaign That Made History (2025).

[2:54] The Village That Raised Her
[9:30] The Myth of the Good Woman
[12:20] Advice for Ambitious, Single Women
[20:14] Stamina, Staying Power & the Long Game
[23:54] The Weight of Being “The First”
[28:38] What She Needed More Of
[32:52] Who She’s Becoming Now

Host & Executive Producer: Kimberly Bizu
Additional editorial support: Iman Floyd-Carroll, ⁠18% STUDIOS⁠ , Sumner Sykes

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