I Could’ve Been That Girl But Perfectionism Held Me Back | Real Talk GRWM | A Safe Space With Blake

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Welcome to A Safe Space with Blake — where we glam, get real, and unpack what’s actually holding us back.

In this episode, we’re talking about the silent killer of confidence and creativity: perfectionism.

That pressure to get it just right before you show up, speak up, or even start? It’s not discipline — it’s fear in disguise.

If you’ve ever:

Overthought a post until you deleted it
Delayed your glow-up waiting for “perfect timing”
Talked yourself out of something you knew you were called to do...
Then this video is your sign.

Let’s talk about how perfectionism and overthinking are keeping us stuck — and how to finally release the pressure so we can become that girl… the version of ourselves we’ve been holding back.

I talk about how perfectionism has been holding me back — not just from creating content, but from stepping into the best version of myself. If you’ve ever felt stuck, like your standards are too high to take action, this video is for you.

Let’s grow through it, together.


00:00 Welcome To A Safe Space With Blake
00:32 My Struggle with Perfectionism
01:18 Perfection Paralysis: When Good Isn’t Good Enough
2:52 Fear Masquerading as Perfectionism
05:22 Start Messy: Done Is Better Than Perfect
06:28 High Standards vs. Perfectionism
07:50 5 Tips to Break Through Perfectionism
12:26 Letting go of Limiting Beliefs
15:20: Is It Perfectionism or a Trauma Response?
18:19 Outfit Styling
19:52 Final Thoughts: You Are Already That Girl