How to talk to guys | Conversation Starters

This video is about how to talk to guys and conversation starters

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Today video is about how to talk to guys and conversation openers and how to flirt!

A young lady named Lejla asked me about how to open a conversation with a guy. Thanks for the question Lejla heres my take on it.

A lot of you ladies get nervous at the thought of approaching a guy. And while most things are easier said than done. Approaching a guy isn’t that hard. The thing you must remember is that you should talk to a guy like you imagine a great guy talking to you. If a handsome guy noticed you what would you want him to say to you? You don’t want cheesy pickup lines. You just want a compliment and some genuine interest shown right?

A simple “Hi, handsome. What’s your name” Is more than enough to drive hishie ego through the roof and make him want to further the conversation with you.If thts too forward for you try bringing up a shared experience. If this is your first time meeting him find something in the atmosphere to talk about. Something like “oh my God don’t you hate these long lines” or “the food here is awesome isn’t it” “im not familiar with the menu here any recommendations?” “do you come her often and so on and so fourth.

A simple Hi, with eye contact and a prolonged smile is also very affective. Follow that by Hey, I’m insert your name here, what’s your name? This girl once said to me,..”can I be honest? I think your really handsome! After I caught my breath and got control of my blushing and ear to ear grim she asked me “do you have a girlfriend?” It was so calm and natural. I felt very lucky to be have even caught the attention of such lovely woman.

However you dream of a handsome guy approaching you just do that! Just replace all the feminine word like pretty and beautiful with masculine words like handsome and good looking. Young boys still like to be called cute, but I don’t. Cuz I’m a grown ass man!........Think Alicia keys song you don’t know my name. She just calls the guy up and spits some real game to him. I put a link to that song in the description. I love when a woman is that upfront and honest in the way she was in that song. That’s the style a real gentleman prefers.

You could also try Hi, how are you? Hats your name? I love your shirt! No matter what the opener your just looking for signs that he wants to be in this conversation.If he is Grinning, Squaring up to you, leaning in, or trying to shake your hand as he introduces himself or asking you about yourself. These all show that he prefers to keep talking to you. So ask him out at this point or just keep talking to him to build a report.

You don’t have to be good at flirting just be real. Watch for signs that your being well received. Is he engaging or overall very welcoming? Is he trying to stretch the conversation? Or is he short with you or quick to go about his way? If he checks your opener with a one word response and suddenly shows you the back of his ass by turning away from you and walking away don’t feel bad it just wasn’t your day.lol

That’s why I recommend The old “hi, Hoow are you with a lingering smile. If he doesn’t reciprocate you can always lie and say you weren’t flirting you were just being nice.lol

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