Avoidants are not BAD PEOPLE But They will still RUIN You | Megan Weks

In this video, we're tackling one of the most painful and confusing relationship dynamics: loving someone with a strong avoidant attachment style. You know they're not a malicious person, but you also know their patterns are causing you real, measurable damage. How do you reconcile their good heart with the harmful impact of their behavior?

This isn't about villainizing the avoidant. It's about validating your experience and giving you the clarity to see that you can hold two truths at once: they are a good, wounded person, and the relationship is systematically ruining your mental health, self-worth, and sense of reality. We'll break down exactly how this happens and why your compassion is being weaponized against you, so you can finally make a decision that protects YOU.

⏰ TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 - The Impossible Conflict: Good Person vs. Bad Impact
02:15 - 🧠 How Their "Goodness" Traps You in Compassion
05:40 - ⚖️ The Two Truths You MUST Hold Simultaneously
08:20 - 🩹 Their Valid Wounds vs. Your Real Damage
12:10 - 💔 The Measurable Toll on Your Mental & Physical Health
16:05 - 🤯 How They Destroy Your Sense of Reality (Without Malice)
20:30 - 🛑 Why Good Intentions Do NOT Protect You
23:50 - 💡 The Path Forward: Choosing Yourself Over Their Potential
27:15 - 🔑 Your Final Takeaway and Call to Action

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I am not a licensed therapist. This video is based on my experience as a relationship and empowerment coach and is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your own qualified mental health professional with any questions you may have regarding a relationship or a medical condition.