The 3-Word Hadith That Can Transform Every Relationship | Ustadh Mohamad Baajour

The 3-Word Hadith That Can Transform Every Relationship | Ustadh Mohamad Baajour

Three words from Prophet Muhammad ﷺ that revolutionized how Muslims treat each other - and can fix every relationship in your life

A sheikh once gave the best speech at an entire leadership conference using only these 3 words. If every leader, parent, spouse, and friend applied this hadith, we'd have peaceful homes, amazing congregations, and harmonious communities. Ustadh Mohamad Baajour reveals the profound mirror principle that will transform how you give advice, handle conflicts, and build lasting relationships.
⚡ THE 3-WORD HADITH:
"The believer is the mirror of his fellow believer."
Al-mu'minu mir'atu'l-mu'min
🪞 THE 7 MIRROR PRINCIPLES:
1️⃣ Mirror Doesn't Lie

Tell your brother/sister when they're wrong (with love)
Don't ignore mistakes or give false praise

2️⃣ Mirror is Gentle

Give advice privately, not publicly (private message, not public shame)
One harsh word can shatter relationships like breaking a mirror

3️⃣ Mirror Shows Progress

Encourage improvement: "You used to smoke 20, now 5 - keep going!"
Don't keep reminding them of past failures

4️⃣ Mirror Shows Accurate Size

Don't exaggerate small sins or minimize major ones
Don't call someone kafir for minor mistakes

5️⃣ Mirror Doesn't Remind of Past

When someone repents, please don't bring up their old life
Don't say "You forgot you were a rapper?" when they give dawah

6️⃣ Mirror Shows Both Clean AND Dirty

Don't judge an entire person based on one mistake
Common in marriage: focus on one fault, forget 20 years of good

7️⃣ Mirror Doesn't Store Images

MOST IMPORTANT: No backbiting
Never discuss someone's faults when they're absent
A major sin that transfers your good deeds to your victims

⚠️ THE BACKBITING DANGER:
On Judgment Day, people you backbit will demand your hasanat as compensation. You could lose Paradise for gossiping!
🤝 CHOOSE THE RIGHT MIRRORS:
Your friends are your mirrors - choose those who:

Tell you the truth with kindness
Encourage your good deeds
Stop you from wrong actions
Don't give you wrong advice

💡 PRACTICAL APPLICATIONS:

Marriage: Gentle correction, focus on spouse's good qualities
Parenting: Be honest but encouraging mirrors to children
Leadership: Apply with employees and the congregation
Friendship: Listen carefully, don't store grievances
All relationships: Private advice, public encouragement

This 3-word teaching contains the secret to peaceful homes, successful leadership, and lasting friendships.

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"The believer is the mirror of his fellow believer."
🤲 May Allah help us be perfect mirrors to each other and strengthen our relationships. Ameen!

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