Men Respond Differently When You Give Too Much - Even if He Likes You

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Men Respond Differently When You Give Too Much - Even if He Likes You

Do men really lose interest when you’re kind, available, and emotionally open from the start?
It sounds counterintuitive, but it’s true. In this video, coach and speaker Ismael Gomez explains why being “too nice” or “too attached” too early in a relationship doesn’t make men feel safe; it actually makes them feel pressured, confused, or even repelled.

If you’ve ever found yourself overexplaining, overgiving, or overthinking your way into heartbreak, this video is your wake-up call.

Ismael Gomez breaks down 5 common behaviors that feel natural and loving to you, but come across as anxious energy to emotionally unavailable men. These subtle shifts in behavior are the reason why men pull away, why they seem to lose interest without warning, and why so many modern women are left wondering, “What did I do wrong?”

CHAPTERS
00:00 Introduction
01:06 Being Thankful For Low Effort
02:17 Adjusting Your Mood To Match His
03:45 Giving Space Scares You
04:59 Over-Explaining Yourself
06:40 Building A Future in Your Head Too Soon
07:53 Conclusion

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS VIDEO:
1. BEING THANKFUL FOR LOW EFFORT
When a man does the bare minimum and you respond like it’s a love letter, he doesn’t feel appreciated; he feels like the job is done. Ismael Gomez explains how over-celebrating small gestures can quickly kill his motivation.

2. ADJUSTING YOUR MOOD TO MATCH HIS
Trying to stay positive to avoid conflict?
Suppressing your emotions to keep him happy?
You’re not connecting, you’re performing. This kills attraction, and it’s exhausting. Learn how to stay true to your emotions without turning him off.

3. GIVING SPACE SCARES YOU
You think closeness equals connection, so silence feels threatening. But real intimacy needs breathing room. When you fear space, you start chasing, and that’s when he starts disappearing.

4. OVER-EXPLAINING YOURSELF
Long texts. Justifying your needs. Making sure he “gets” you. None of that builds respect; it signals insecurity. Ismael shows you how to communicate clear boundaries in a confident, unapologetic way that makes men lean in.

5. BUILDING A FUTURE TOO SOON
Two great dates, and your mind is already planning vacations, wedding hashtags, and baby names. You’re bonding with a fantasy, not a real man. This emotional fast-forwarding is one of the biggest reasons women feel blindsided when men back out.

WHO SHOULD WATCH THIS DATING ADVICE VIDEO:
1. Women who overthink every text and overgive to win affection.
2. Anyone stuck in a cycle of attracting emotionally unavailable men.
3. Women who struggle to “play it cool” even when they know they should.
4. Anyone who says “I don’t do that anymore” but keeps repeating the same pattern.
5. Women who want to feel more secure, grounded, and respected in dating.
6. Anyone craving mutual investment, not one-sided emotional effort.

Being loving is not the problem. Being unguardedly loving too soon is.
This is your sign to stop trying to “earn” someone’s attention and start inviting love that earns you.

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Ismael Gomez III
I'm a Cuban - American Relationship Coach, Author, and Speaker.

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