SITTING WITH MJAY | EPISODE 27: Mohlobolo ga o Jewe Gabedi

In this episode, we sit down with Ouma and Captain My Captain for a real and thought-provoking conversation about the challenges women face in their marriages, the expectations placed on them, and how society reacts when those marriages begin to fall apart. Using the Promise Makuanyane divorce story as a starting point, we unpack deeper issues around judgment, loyalty, and the silence many women live under.

Together, we explore:
✨ The reality of problems women face behind closed doors
✨ The Promise Makunyane story, why her choice to stay or leave sparked such strong opinions.
✨ How society reacts to her divorce, and whether it’s a reflection of people’s own insecurities or broken relationships.
✨ The random question of the day: “Baile ba go swara o boa Malunda?”, and the laughter.
✨ A viewer’s question that leads to an open discussion about married for the second time as a woman.
✨ Whether Christians also practice go hlabisha, and how it shows up in subtle ways in the church and relationships.
✨ And so much more!

This episode blends honesty, humour, and deep reflection, a true mix of raw reality and heartfelt conversation. Whether you’ve been through marriage struggles or just want to understand them better, this one will make you think.

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Timestamps:
02:11 Start (Captain's Inboxes and followers)
04:23 - What are the common complaints from Inboxes?
26:08 - Promise Makunyane Story
56:48 - Were you ever caught from Malunda?
01:07:33 - Is it difficult to love loud?
01:16:07 - Text from Inbox for advice

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