E207 The Foreplay Episode: The 5 Things We’re All Getting Wrong

The Most Overlooked Part of Sex (And Why It’s Actually the Most Important) 🔥
We’re re-airing one of our most downloaded episodes of all time — and if you’ve ever rushed through foreplay (or skipped it altogether), this one’s a must-listen.

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In this episode, we cover:
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✅ Why “just get to the point” is killing the mood
✅ Why receiving foreplay can feel hard (especially for women — and no, it’s not your fault)
✅ The most common foreplay ruts couples get stuck in
✅ How to make foreplay feel fun again (instead of awkward or performative)
✅ The mindset shift that will change how you think about intimacy forever

💬 Whether you're feeling stuck, unsure what your partner actually wants, or just want way more pleasure — this episode is your permission slip.

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TIMESTAMPS:
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0:00 - 13:20 INTRO
13:21 - 16:05 The Foreplay Conversation
16:06 - 1:03:04 The 5 Things We’re All Getting Wrong

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