Vanessa and Xander Marin | Sex Therapist
Hi! We’re Vanessa and Xander! We specialize in helping people stop feel so embarrassed about sex, and start having way more fun in the bedroom. We’ve been affectionately nicknamed “that sex couple” by our followers for our frank discussions of the modern challenges faced by modern couples.
Vanessa is a licensed psychotherapist. She studied human sexuality at Brown University, has written for The New York Times, Allure, and Lifehacker, and has been featured thousands of times by publications like O, The Oprah Magazine, Real Simple, Refinery29, New York Magazine, Rolling Stone, Buzzfeed, and many more. And Xander is a regular dude who left a cushy career in Tech once he realized it was more fun to talk about sex with his wife all day.
Together, we have the unique ability to make you laugh while giving you the courage to talk about sex and relationships in ways you never have before!
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E231: When Life Gets Heavy (A Personal Update)
E230 Как по-настоящему насладиться оральным сексом (не задумываясь об этом)
E229: Ask A Sex Therapist: Swallowing, Fetishes, + Exes
E228: Breaking Down A Real-Life Text Fight (pt 2.)
E227: Инициация: что вы делаете неправильно и как это сделать правильно
E226: Foreplay Frustrations: How to Get More (and Better) Foreplay
E225: The Truth About Sex and Aging: Menopause, Erectile Dysfunction, and Libido
E224: The Ultimate Beginner’s Guide to Sex Toys & Tools
E223: Sex After Baby: Postpartum Sex, Intimacy & Desire
E222: The AI Girlfriend: How to Protect Your Relationship from Artificial Intimacy
E221: How to Explore Your Kinks Without Shame (Cuckolding, Pegging, Breeding, and more)
E220: A Partner’s Guide To The Female Orgasm
E219: The Truth About Female Orgasm: Your Q’s Answered!
E218 Got the Ick? Why It Happens in Relationships + What to Do About It pt. 2
E217: Got the Ick? Why It Happens in Relationships + What to Do About It
E216: The Truth About Being Passive In Bed: And How To Take Control
E215: Mismatched Sex Drive Types: The #1 Reason Couples Struggle With Desire
E214: The Truth About Being Touch-Starved (Even in a Happy Relationship)
E213: What Do Men REALLY Think About…? Part 3 (Doggy Style, Aging, Leg Hair & More!)
E212: Why You Flinch When Your Partner Touches You (And How To Fix It) “The Bristle Reaction”
E211: Ask A Sex Therapist: Penis Pumps, Pegging, + Postpartum Sex
E210: How To Know When Enough Is Enough
E209: Mental Load: The #1 Desire Killer
E208: Stuck In A Relationship Rut? Here’s Your 4-Week Fix
Going to a Sex Club... But Not Telling My Partner – Is That Cheating?
Why I don’t worry about turning on my partner if I’m not in the mood for sex
E207 The Foreplay Episode: The 5 Things We’re All Getting Wrong
E206: Butt Stuff 101: Everything You’re Too Afraid To Ask
She Swears He Cheated… But Did They Ever Agree on this?
How to Stop Being Defensive in My Marriage?