🔴The Tables Have Turned, and They Hope You Never Know

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When the dynamics of a relationship shift, and the "tables turn," a significant change has occurred. A Narcissist typically finds this development unwelcome, despite such shifts frequently happening in their lives, though they will never openly admit it. In fact, the very idea that they are losing control is their greatest psychological nightmare.

A Narcissist endeavors to present their life as perfectly idyllic, free from faults, and universally admired. This fabricated image, however, is a direct contradiction to reality and is precisely what is referred to as the Narcissist's false narrative. You, like many others, may have fallen into this trap, believing in the carefully constructed mask. Perhaps you perceived the Narcissist as the most extraordinary person you had ever encountered, genuinely caring, a perfect counterpart, a soulmate, an exemplary parent, or an incredibly compassionate sibling.

However, a point inevitably arrives when this fabricated reality falters; a breaking point is reached, and everything unravels. This is a common pattern within a narcissistic abusive relationship. Narcissists are unable to sustain their mask indefinitely, and when it inevitably crumbles, the repercussions are felt not only by them but also by anyone in their immediate vicinity.

This is the exposure of the "fragile self." Beneath that grandiose exterior lies a deep-seated insecurity. When the environment stops reflecting their imagined perfection back to them, they spiral. They don't just get angry; they experience a "narcissistic injury." This isn't just a bad mood; it is a fundamental threat to their existence. When the tables turn, it forces them to confront the one thing they have spent their entire lives running from: their own emptiness.

Throughout a Narcissist's life, there will be numerous instances where circumstances do not unfold as they desire. While you may not often hear about these specific events—because they work overtime to hide their failures—they certainly occur. For example, consider a scenario where a Narcissist is cultivating a New Supply. This situation may be entirely separate from your own experience, perhaps long after your relationship with the Narcissist ended, or even before you met them.

This potential Supply might have been on the verge of succumbing to the Narcissistic fog, poised to fall deeply into their manipulative grasp. However, something transpired; they recognized the true nature behind the mask quickly. Perhaps this person had strong boundaries or had previously educated themselves on red flags. Consequently, all the extensive effort the Narcissist invested in grooming this New Supply was rendered futile. This person might have chosen to discard the Narcissist, or simply rejected their advances and blocked all communication.

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